PART 2 of 3 - How to take the first step to reversing loneliness.

Each person has what we call a “Connector’s Key”. This is the specific type of internal energy that you rely on to achieve your own form of success in the face of building or achieving something that --at first-- seems much bigger than yourself. 

 

It's called the "Connector's Key" because it opens up and provides access for you and others to the best and most natural version of yourself when the going gets tough.  

Knowing your key allows you to access a consistent version of yourself in each of your day-to-day actions. It becomes your muse for which you write and share. Each of us has one, and we’re going to guess that you can see yours among the others as clearly as if you’ve known it all along. Try it out.
 

The four keys are listed here. 

Which key do you think is yours? 

Composure is your Connector's Key. It is about knowing your fears but being a shining example of how you manage them. Unlike other forms of lonely, you are not hiding your fears per se. Your best connections, in fact, come through those moments where you've actively maintained your composure in the face of fear.

 

Vulnerability is your Connector's Key. Your ability to fail in your own mind and get back up again is one of your greatest forms of magnetism. Sharing these failings feels extremely vulnerable. However, you'll be shocked to learn over time that you are not at all alone with this key. Many people who eventually share this key have been painfully hiding it just like you. 

Listening is your Connector's Key. The silence around you is a gift. It allows you to see and hear what so many people are missing. Your key is to help other people --busy noisy people-- to see and hear themselves and others in the best of ways.

 Willpower is your Connector's Key. Your ability to fail in your own mind and get back up again is one of your greatest forms of magnetism. Sharing these failings feels extremely vulnerable. However, you'll be shocked to learn over time that you are not at all alone with this key. Many people who eventually share this key have been painfully hiding it just like you. thoughts, words and actions around managing willpower. We all have a finite amount each day, and your type of lonely is primed for leveraging an understanding of willpower and how it recharges.